I wrote the following
essay in December 2002 for a scholarship application. The maximum length was 500 words, and the
question to be answered was, “Who is the voice of your generation, and what is
that person’s message? Do you agree with
it or not?” Here is my response, which
helped me to win the scholarship.
The Voice of My Generation
The
pop music star Britney Spears is unquestionably a voice of my generation. She has had great success in the music world,
having sold millions of albums worldwide.
Most young adults at least know her name; many, even those who do not
like her music, can belt out one of her songs on the spot. It is through those songs that Spears
delivers her messages, messages that contradict each other and corrupt the
young girls who idolize her.
In
her song “Sometimes,” Spears croons, “sometimes I run, sometimes I hide,
sometimes I'm scared of you, but all I really want is to hold you tight, treat
you right, be with you day and night…”
To some, these lyrics are about domestic abuse. Spears is telling the frightened female
partners of abusive men that they should stay with their men, “treat them
right,” and “be with them day and night.”
These women need to be told that they should get out of their abusive
relationships and seek help, not that they should stay with men who physically
or verbally assault them.
The
lyrics of another one of her songs, “Born to Make You Happy,” say that, just as
the title suggests, a woman’s duty is to satisfy her lover, not herself. “I don't know how to live without your love,
I was born to make you happy,” Spears sings.
In
another of her songs, “I’m a Slave 4 U,” Spears claims to be the slave of the
title “U,” ruining the image of the independent woman other female musicians
are trying to portray. Young women
should be told that they do not need to be in a relationship to be happy and
that they should not live to serve another.
It is a wonderful thing to give and to make others happy, but not at the
expense of one’s own happiness.
In
one of her most popular songs, “Oops!… I Did It Again,” Spears warbles about
how she plays games with men and makes them believe she is in love with them
when she is not. Young girls, to whom
Spears is something of a goddess, now believe toying with a man’s emotions is
acceptable because Spears does it.
Finally,
in her song “What U See (Is What U Get),” Spears sings about the provocative
image she has developed. “But now you
think I'm wearing too much make-up, That my dress is too tight… What you see is
what you get, This is me…” However, in
the October 2001 issue of the magazine YM,
Spears stated, “There’s a part of me that likes to look and act bad. It’s like
playing dress-up.” In the same article,
she also said of the fans who ask her for advice, “I just tell them to be
themselves… It’s not about trying to be something you’re not.”
Britney
Spears is a hypocrite and a bad role model, and for these reasons, I do not
agree with the messages she sends out to my generation.
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